Old maids and what men want



Have you heard?  Ashton Kutcher cheated on Demi Moore and as if that was not enough he did it on their 6th anniversary! This leads me to wonder just what it is men are looking for in a woman.

Meanwhile after days of trying to track her down I finally managed to track my girl Miss J down and we had lunch. My friend was not a happy customer reason her sister younger by 5 years was engaged. Let me give a background. Miss J is the first-born in a family of 3 girls the middle sister got married about 5 years ago and already has 2 children. Now here was the “baby” of the family also trotting around planning a wedding and Miss J was in the line up! Her mother had stopped asking for a wedding *side note* it is very irritating when parents (mothers especially) keep asking you what your plans are in regard to marriage and kids but when they stop asking; it becomes very disheartening because even you give up on yourself

This little girl is a mess to say so very politely; she parties two days in a row, her whole wardrobe is on her bed and she cannot boil water to save her life so how did someone decide that this was a woman he can turn a wife into? Oh! She’s not pregnant I checked.

I’m not saying that some girls deserve happiness more than others but what I am wondering is the criteria men use in choosing a life partner. Miss J has her shit together, she’s a nice person and if I were a man I would wife her instantly.

I’m sure very many of us know this girl we always wonder why she hasn’t gotten snagged by some man.

This is me sending out a prayer for Miss J may she not celebrate another old maid’s day and until the day that girl walks down the aisle and not as a bridesmaid I will always wonder what men want

Meanwhile, dear female reader who wishes to remain anonymous but posted a comment on my blog and asked me not to approve.  I’m glad your boyfriend reads my blog and I will find a way to write an almost anonymous post that explains how you feel. Cool?


N.B.  @Buggz79 was right all I needed to do was look at my stats I now  have fire!


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