I am the owner of a new attitude on life. Recent events have led me to believe that life is way too short to ever settle for less than what you deserve or think you deserve. YOLO my new outlook and I’m loving it!

A friend went through a rough patch with her “overseas” boyfriend after his mistress and I use this word with disdain called her and even sent photos of her and my pal’s man in all sorts of nasty positions: Thank God the camera was unkind and the cellulite was visible a mile away. First and foremost has the entire female population fallen down and hit their heads? I thought weaves provided cushion. I have been forced to suffer Matatu FM these past few weeks and needless to say am astonished by what I have hear.

So there I was consoling my friend while trying to convince her that the hit squad she was planning was way more than that man deserved. I have always had a policy on unfaithfulness I can’t stand it and I will not stand it.

At my age I cannot wear tube tops, drink from bottles and jump and down till the sun shines. Neither can I be bothered with a man who thinks I will chase after him and his torrent of campus girls. The shoes I wear cannot allow me to run after a man.

I also have no intention of starting a choir and repeating myself every time I feel offended. If I have to say something twice; you need a hearing aid not a girlfriend! I reciprocate by being just about the best woman you could ever hope for.

I believe I am a catch! Any man who reels in this fish from the sea is one lucky son of a gun and he best appreciate that. Granted good men are hard to find but try look for a good woman and all of a sudden those ratios of men to women will make sense.

My advice to my friend? Cry a little, lick your wounds, Pick yourself up and move on like that was just a minor bump in the road because that’s all it was. Bad relationships teach you to appreciate the good ones when they finally come along.

So if you’re out there feeling unappreciated don’t fret pretty girls are a dime a dozen but Good women come along once in a lifetime woe unto the person that lets You go!



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